Which is the right action?
All actions are to offer something.
How is this possible, to consider all action as an offering.
Take the mother, she brings a child into the world, but should not consider it as hers. She offers her knowledge. A child sees all emotions in the mother, the father and learns by example, by words this is not possible. She shows love and the child understands love.
Sperm is offered to the womb and as a result a child is born, offered.
Whatever materials we use are considered offerings alone, because in our system they are serving important centers.
Pleasure is a by-product of what we eat, the main thing is we are offering something to the Gods and Goddesses (energies). Our intention should be; let them receive the food, to support them, to strengthen them.
All actions in this life are to be an offering, this is the ideal life.